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爱情是一个磁场，而不是一个绳子，捆住他，不如吸引他。
一根绳子会让男人有挣脱的欲望，
而一个磁场却能给男人自由的假像，和一个永恆的诱惑..


不要经常去试探男人，更不要以分手作为威胁，
当你经常给他这种暗示，他的潜意识就会做好分手的打算。
不要因为男人爱你就无限制的扩张自己的权利，
不要干涉他的理想，信仰和追求，他一定有些特製是你所不瞭解的。
不要经常迟到，不要以为男人爱你他就应该有无限的耐心，
一个人的耐心是有限度的，耐心消磨完了，就会消磨爱。


不要信奉这句话“你爱我，你就应该我想什麼”，这完全是一句鬼话，
没有人会完全知道对方想什麼。由於男人没有及时瞭解你的想法，
而得出男人不爱你的结论是非常愚蠢的..
不要经常叫男人陪你逛街，没有几个男人真正喜欢逛街，
强迫的最终结局就是反抗..
男人在热恋时为女孩子做的事情，不要指望他在以后的生活中一直持续下去，
聪明的女孩子通常都会打五折..
不要去试图改变男人，不要想著他会在你的调教下成为你理想中优秀的男性，
去适应他比改变他来的明智。


不要对自己的魅力过分自信，没有几个男人会永久的承受出尔反尔，
没有几个男人可以招之即来挥之即去，除非，这个男人爱你别有动机。
不要用这样的思路来指导你们的爱情：
在男人的言行中寻找他不爱你的证据。
男人不能每时每刻将精力放在女人身上，
他也不可能注意到女人的每次暗示和不快。
当你用放大镜来寻找灰尘的时候，总会得到。


男人在思考的时候，儘量不要打搅他，
他有时候也需要独处的快乐，那并不证明他不爱你。
男人和你再亲密，也不要伤害他的自尊，
无论在别人面前还是独处，伤害就是伤害，无论他是否爱你。


不要把自己的男人和别的男人比较，不要说他不如别人两满，不如别人体贴。
每个人都是特殊的，爱的方式也不同，经常这样说会使爱成为一种心理负担。
永远在男人面前保持一点神秘感，不要将自己的一切都百分之百的袒露给男人，
一个人吃得太饱是会厌食的，而不会感激..
不要指望用性来获得男人，这是捕获男人最不牢的方式，因为爱情与肉体无关..


爱情是一个磁场，而不是一个绳子，捆住他，不如吸引他。
一根绳子会让男人有挣脱的欲望，
而一个磁场却能给男人自由的假像，和一个永恆的诱惑..
请衡量一下，如果你们的爱情是你享受了更多的权利，而对方要尽更多的义务，
那你就要试著去改变，爱情也适合经济学规律，形成互赢的局面才会持久..

The things happen when i found out that 22 years old's him is not the one i want in the future..i start to struggle..somehow i love him more than he loves me. Girls always sentimental. I am a girl to make sure that my life is going on the right road that i wish to included my love. I am not dare to make any decision until 5 years later of today, i seriously and cruelty to end the love with him. Everyone would think i am crazy, but some people think i did the right decision. In the middle of these 2 months, i was confusing whether i did the right thing. i had been happy that, at the same time i had been regret that. Because it is too fast. I need time to let me think properly. Be patient ya, i will slowly slowly tell you all the ?? that appeared at your mind. 

Actually,you can say me bad girl. But i can tell you that it is common sense for every girl. what is the thing that make me so brave to broke with 22s' him? No doubt that,it is because 32s' him! I was too early dating with a guy, i had been loved with him for 5 years, but when the more days we gone through, the more i felt i love him is not reality! I thought to use all my true heart to treat him, hope he will be mature and "know" how to love me in one day! But i felt lost and gained nothing at the end. I need a mature man to take care me because i think he wont be change for the another 10 years later. However, it is impossible due to his personality. i cant change one's personality because it is what he is! So i decided to leave, i want him realize and improving himself if i did it! After that, i found that its really useful to him. He got down deeply and also improving himself bit, even though it is still the same. ehem...I cant guarantee  make sure now and future. Maybe one day he would make a change, perhaps not. I know its hard for him actually. It is normal for human behaviour. Even anyone or wife or most important people to one, also cant change one's personality! 

I told him, i am not love him, its just reality! i felt no one especially my family support me, so even how strong i held on to love him, i will be tired in one day. He loves me, but he don't know how to love me. I need a safe love and safe shelter to me. Its just simple. I do not meant that i need a rich guy or what, i just need someone really know how to love me. I am a mature girl but not totally is, will know who really loves me by their actions. I ask myself why i love my mom so much without any reason without counting on how long it is,it is because mom really did it and really knows what i really needs and love me! It is immortality love, never change even i die. 

A 32s' guy approach me, and he did what my mum did to me! The way he did to me, it just touched and caught my heart. I think that if a man treat me for the rest of my life, i think i will love him all the way. But how about 22s' him? 5 years love, do you think it is fake?! Definitely nope. I was started to confuse and the worst for me sometimes is i compared them. But then, after that i found out that like is like, don like is don like, cannot comparing the guys. i love the 22s', but not reality, this feeling can last how long,i don't know. But the 32s' guy did all the way that touched me, feel safe. How nice the moment we had, but its too short, i spoil the relationship with an impulse. He said need time for me to think properly who i really like, coz actually that time i really confuse. He felt sad and hurt. 

I am now single and available. I hope before i going into a relationship, i can really know who i love and who i really worth to wait for....i could not give you the exact answer now..let time do everything to us,ok..Let the god decide the rest.

I think i love 22s' more than 32s'. it just only 22s' haven mature yet due to 22s'. But can you faster become 32s',let me feel safer? i just need a man who is 成熟和稳重,让我安心一切。

20岁的时候爱上他的帅气，
22岁离开他因为他的孩子气..
然后你遇到了30岁的人，
没有阳光帅气的外表，却拥有成熟和稳重让你安心的一切。
你怎样任性耍赖30的他都会让着你，
你怎样挥霍发泄30的他都会罩着你。
你眼中的30是他长大的模样，30眼中的你是他年轻时的她。
30曾经像22的他一样孩子气，然后她离开了30..
22的他 30岁的时候也会拥有一个22岁的女孩，事情总是这样循环往复..
十年后当这个22男孩蜕变成一个30男人，
他要感谢你，你的离开让他学会了成熟。

喜歡一個人的時候你會看到他的優點，真正愛上一個人的時候你會接受他的缺點 ...

對自己好點，因為一輩子不長；對身邊的人好點，因為下輩子不一定能夠遇見！

首先愛自己,其次愛父母,再次愛男人,然後記得把自己的愛與其他人分享.
有足夠的鈔票做儲蓄.
男人不可靠.老公屬於男人,所以,別妄想老公可靠.
世界上最可靠的人是自己的父母,但父母不能陪我們一輩子,所以,最可靠的人是自己.
一定要有一兩個女朋友.女朋友比男人可靠.
一定要保持自信.
一定要整潔清爽美麗.
健康是世界上最重要的東西.

1、堅持自己的夢想，哪怕是5歲時傻傻的想法，也去努力實現它。
2、看喜歡的書，寫喜歡的字，做喜歡的事，交喜歡的朋友，從事喜歡的工作
3、不苛求自己做到完美，對自己寬容的同時更要寬容別人的不完美
4、不傷害愛我的人和我愛的人
5、生活以快樂為原則
6、可以不美麗，可以不可愛，可以不溫柔，但是一定要誠實和善良
7、喜愛一切美好的事物，讚美並享受它們所帶來的美好
8、當困難來臨時，用微笑去面對，用智慧去解決
9、要勇於承認自己所犯的錯誤，並承擔其帶來的責任
10、愛家​​人，愛朋友，愛伴侶，愛孩子，然而，要真正為自己活

1、永遠不要為已發生的和未發生的事憂慮。已經發生既成事實憂慮也於事無補，未發生的憑主觀臆測無法推斷事情的走向，徒增煩惱而已。
2、不要老在別人面前傾訴你的困境袒露你的脆弱。
3、 要快樂，要開朗，要堅韌，要溫暖。這和性格無關。
4、要美麗，關注時尚。
5、讀書。
6、真誠，保持溫情平和質樸的心態。
7、對人性的弱點有清醒的認識，但相信真誠的愛情，對愛情永遠懷有單純的嚮往。
8、不要想著依靠別人，要有目標有追求，這與年齡無關。
9、做一個簡單的人，踏實而務實。不沉溺幻想。不庸人自擾。
10、永遠對生活充滿希望，對於困境與磨難，微笑面對。

爱一个人，
要了解，也要开解；
要道歉，也要道谢；
要认错，也要改错；
要体贴，也要体谅；
是接受，而不是忍受；
是宽容，而不是纵容；
是支持，而不是支配；
是慰问，而不是质问；
是倾诉，而不是控诉；
是难忘，而不是遗忘；
是彼此交流，而不是凡事交代；
是为对方默默祈求，
而不是向对方诸多要求；
可以浪漫，但不要浪费；

喜欢是淡淡的爱
爱是深深的喜欢
当他哭的时候你安慰他，那便是喜欢；如果你和他一起哭，那就是爱。你看见他如果非常开心，那就是喜欢；你看见他如果心跳加速又害羞，那就是爱。
如果你想和他在一起开心，那就是喜欢，如果你想默默守护他，那就是爱。爱是处处为他着想，而不是一天到晚想着自己怎么与他在一起。
爱是由喜欢而来的，或许你现在只是喜欢他，但当你愿意为他“真正”的放弃一切，就像你父母对你一样，那么我要恭喜你，你爱上了他并且懂得了什么是爱。

 

 

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